I know the posture well. Brows raised, eyes wide. Head barely peeking out from behind my leg. Little arms wrapped so tightly around my thigh it’s near impossible to break the hold. This is my three year old being shy. This was him at soccer practice a few Saturdays ago when we encountered a chaotic swarm of unfamiliar three and four year olds. The kids were hyped up and squealing with energy as they awaited the start of practice. Tiny legs jumping, bodies spinning, and hands high-fiving their energetic coaches. My little guy loves soccer and loves other kids, but warming up to chaotic environments, especially with unfamiliar people, can take him some time. Watching the others and observing the crazy of it all, he felt intimidated. Instinctively, he clung to my body and hid his face.
My child was in good company, there were a few other hesitant kids on the sidelines. … Read more