Weaning the pacifier, Elmo, and why I think security objects are awesome


This past weekend our family took the plunge: We weaned our 20-month old off the pacifier.  I say “wean,” but the reality is we went cold-turkey.  I didn’t have the patience for a more subtle approach or the time to formulate some complicated plan.

Saturday morning was game-time so my daughter and I sat together on the couch to watch a YouTube video of Elmo’s “Bye Bye Binky” song.  I searched her face for buy-in and she honestly looked intrigued.   After she watched the clip we collected her binkies in a little bag and I asked, “Can you say bye-bye to your binkies and throw them away?  Just like Elmo?” She looked curiously at me, like it was a game, then confidently said, “Yes.”  She clutched the bag in her tiny hand, held it above the trash, released her grip, and away they went.   She waved with a smile, “Bye-bye binkies,” then ran off to play.… Read more

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